It was said something to the sort that a women needs to have friends so they can decompress their feelings, so that it's not build up inside and then later lashed out onto their spouses. Well I can understand that completely, but here is my problem that I have had in the past with that.
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This is what I am learning...MARRIAGE IS HARD WORK AND NO MARRIAGE IS PERFECT! But why does it seem when you are talking to other people about problems that may occur, they see it as you are in the worst marriage ever. Then when I am around other people, I never here them say anything or have any negative thoughts about their spouse, so I always wonder that maybe their marriage is perfect and mine isn't. That is why I try to keep myself from to talking to friends about my problems, because I don't want to get look at as the ONE IN A BAD MARRIAGE! But after today what I learned from Sunday school, I am realizing that I do need the female friend that I can talk to. Cause lately I just give my husband the silent treatment and wait for things to blow over, but the problem really never goes away because the mix emotions are still inside.